Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, Chap 8, Children and Youth Accuse Me of Molesting My Stepdaughters

This is chapter 8 of Life With a Drug Addicted Wife. It is a true story of what life was like with my ex-wife. The names have been changed to protect my ex and her children from possible embarrassment. This chapter will deal with Children and Youth Accusing Me of Molesting my Four and Six Year Old Stepdaughters.

First, let me give you some background on Linda, the youngest of my two stepdaughters. At four years old, we already had our hands full with Linda. She was in preschool and causing problems to the extent that the teachers did not want her back in their class. She was kicked off the bus for making sexual advances on a little boy. I'm not sure where the behavior came from; because I did not marry Beth until Linda was four years old. She was always getting in trouble at school and on the bus for touching other kids and rubbing herself inappropriately.  She had been molested by her babysitter just before she started school; but she was known for storytelling. She said that she had sex with a little boy when she was living in the government projects, before I married her mother.

Linda's real dad used to take baths with her. In the bathtub, Ted, her dad, would play sliding board with her. We were told this by both Linda and Rita. Sliding board consisted of getting all soapy and then sliding down daddy's belly, across his abdomen, and into the water. You can imagine there may have been an obstacle in the way.  Hearing about it made me sick.  Ted was deep into porn and apparently he had been getting a little thrill by playing sliding board with his daughters. Ted watched his films in front of the girls. On second thought, maybe I do know where Linda's premature lewd behavior came from.

Back to the school; we had a meeting with the guidance counselor who plainly told us that Linda could not stay in school anymore. They did not know how to protect the other children from Linda's sexual advances. You must find it hard to believe a four year old could act in this fashion; but Linda did. The counselor did tell us about a special school for children like Linda in a town about fifteen miles from us. After meeting with the administration, we put Linda in the school. Linda did well in the school. Every week she would meet with a psychiatrist to talk about her sex infatuation. She went to school here for over a year and never was my named mentioned to psychiatrist as a molester. However, she did mention to the psychiatrist about her dad, and some other guy named Ike who "did things to her." Ike was Beth's partner when she was running around selling drugs. In fact, Linda was in this school when she was taken away from us.

Linda and Rita were in the custody of CYS for nearly two years and my name was never mentioned as a possible molester. Suddenly, when Beth ran out of things she had to do for CYS, I was attacked by CYS.  I received a letter one day stating I would not be seeing the girls anymore. I had been accused of molesting Linda and until the matter was resolved I was not welcome on their property. The letter stated that my name had been turned over to the proper authorities, who would contact me.

I was infuriated and then my anger turned to worry and deep depression over what might happen to me because of Children and Youth's false accusations. I called CYS and asked what I could do to clear my name. I was instructed to see a psychiatrist and be screened to see if I was a molester or not. I would also have to take a lie detector test.  The screening and the Lie detector test was set up for me. I was told if I got a good report back from the psychiatrist and a good report back from the polygraph man I would be allowed to see the girls again. I still was mad; but I saw this as part of CYS's game and I would have to go by their rules.  I saw the psychiatrist and took a huge battery of tests to figure out if I was infatuated with little girls.  The psychiatrist said that I was definitely not interested in children for sex. He sent his results to CYS.  The polygraph man gave me his test and it came back negative for deception. He told me that there was no way I did anything to the girls. He sent his report back to Children and Youth. Now CYS had two fantastic reports back about me; but again they had lied, they did not let me see the girls.

About a week after the reports came back, a loud knock came on my front door. It was the police. They were there because they wanted me to come down to the station and answer some questions. The next morning I met up with the Chief of Police. He badgered me and badgered me some more about the accusations. I told them about the special school we had put Linda in for her vivid imagination, I told them about her dad, and what she said him and about Ike. I also told them I was just cleared by the CYS Psychiatrist and Polygraph man.  The conversation when on long enough to make me uncomfortable; but I was not going to admit to something I did not do. After the police were satisfied, they let me loose. They said, they would turn the information over to the D.A. and it was up to him to pursue it anymore or not.

The next year I literally sat in my house and shook waiting for the police to come take me away for something I didn't do. I found out later that the D.A. was not going to pursue a case that he could not win. I am convinced that I had to go through that nightmare just because I was married to a drug addict. I suppose I was guilty through association. Living with an addict sure makes one's life more exciting; but, its not very good on the nerves. To this day I have not seen my stepdaughters and its been about five years.

Coming soon; Chapter 9, "Beth Loses the Girls to CYS, Permanently"
 

Read the First Chapter:
Life with a Drug Addicted Wife- chapter one

Chapter 2, There is Money Missing
Drug Addiction: Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, chapter 2, There is Money Missing

Chapter 3, There is More Money Missing
Drug Addiction: Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, chapter 3, There is More Money Missing

Chapter 4, Beth Leaves Her Children and Me
Drug Addiction: Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, Chapter 4, Beth Leaves Her Children and Me

Chapter 5, Beth Gets Deeper Into Drugs and Dealing
Drug Addiction: Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, Chapter 5, Beth Gets Deeper into Drugs and Dealing

Chapter 6, Beth has Her Kids Taken Away
Drug Addiction: Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, Chapter 6, Beth has Her Kids Taken Away

Chapter 7, Our Fight with CYS for our Children
Drug Addiction: Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, Chapter 7, Our Fight with CYS for Our Children

Chapter 8, Children and Youth Accuse Me of Molesting my Stepdaughters
Life with a Drug Addicted Wife, Chap 8, Children and Youth Accuse Me of Molesting My Stepdaughters